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Families to focus on their wellbeing to avoid divorce season

Posted on 18th December 2020 in Family Law

Posted by

Aimee Aspinall

Associate and Chartered Legal Executive
Families to focus on their wellbeing to avoid divorce season

With the pandemic putting relationships under pressure and divorce rates recording their biggest percentage rise since 1972, couples are being encouraged to focus on their wellbeing and that of their families over the festive season. 

Traditionally, more people start the process for divorce in January and the New Year than at any other time of the year, which is attributed to the pressure of the family Christmas get-together. This season it’s expected that many more relationships, already under stress as a result of the life challenges brought about by coronavirus and lockdown, will struggle.  

Early in the pandemic, a survey by the relationship charity Relate found that nearly a quarter of people reported that lockdown had placed additional pressure on their relationship, creating a ‘make or break’ environment. A follow-on survey, later in the year, found 8% saying lockdown had made them realise they needed to end their relationship, however 43% saying it had brought them closer. This later finding supports a report by the Marriage Foundation suggesting that more marriages improved during the pandemic than worsened.

Unfortunately, these figures also suggest that vulnerable relationships have felt the impact of lockdown the hardest, for both the close proximity it brought and also the economic and social impact. Our family lawyers have seen that lockdown was hardest for those who were considering, or had already started, the process of divorce, as many were still living together.

This is now being amplified again, due to the pressures of a concentrated, and uncharacteristic, Christmas, where decisions will have to be made about who is part of the family bubble. This month will bring unique challenges, but the months ahead will continue to be a test for everyone’s relationships, against a backdrop of a continuing trend towards divorce.

The latest figures from the Office for National Statistics (ONS) show an 18% spike in the rates of opposite-sex divorce in 2019 with 107,599 cases. While the size of the increase is partly due to a backlog of divorce petitions which resulted in higher numbers of divorce petitions completing during 2019, this figure is the highest since 2014.  It is also the largest annual percentage rise since 1972, when The Divorce Reform Act 1969 opened the way to an easier process for divorce. Alongside, the number of same-sex divorces among both male and female couples has increased each year since 2015.  In 2019, there were 822 divorces among same-sex couples, which is nearly double the previous year and of these, 72% were female couples.

Most divorce petitions in opposite-sex couples came from the wife, at 62%, and unreasonable behaviour was the most common ground for the divorce, cited by 35% of all husbands and 49% of all wives. 

And while no-fault divorce will be available in future, the only current alternative to a fault-based petition is a period of separation. Two years where both parties agree to divorce, or five years if one side does not consent. 


If the worst happens and couples feel they cannot see a future together in 2021, then working out how to navigate the split in a way that is supportive of each other, and most importantly any children involved, is best for everyone. Talking things through is always best and getting round the table with some expert input before you make any agreement over asset sharing or custody arrangements is a good idea.

Some people are worried about how to access advice while the Covid restrictions and health concerns are with us, but we know how important it is to be there for couples, and when we can’t meet face to face, there are all the other ways to talk things through, whether video calls, telephone, email or messaging. Ending a marriage is one of the toughest things anyone will ever deal with, but a collaborative approach can go a long way towards easing the emotional distress.

For more help and advice for you and your family please contact our specialist family lawyers, or visit their dedicated hub page.

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